How to make friends
This book will give your confidence a boost.
It’s about friendship and how to make and keep friends.
If you are reading it, you probably try to find a way to people
harts. It’s normal, it’s human and it’s easy.
Every one of us has a story, a baggage that we carry with us from
our previous relationships, from childhood or from life experience.
Some of us are introverted, some of us have been let down by
people. Please, try to go ahead without preconceptions or by judging people
based on what happened before.
Now…let me tell you a little story about me and you will
understand more about how people can change other people life.
I was an only child in my family. I grow up with a lot of love
from my parents, but with very few friends.
As the time passed, I soon realised that human relationships could
be difficult to make, keep and develop.
This was my thoughts until I meet a very special person that would
have to prove me different.
It was in London more than 10 years ago. I was far from home,
looking for a job and a better life.
I founded both, but most important – I found how beautiful is to
meet someone who will change your existence, your mind and your heart.
Over the next few years, I’ve seen under my eyes probably one of
most precious gift that life can offer – our friends.
I’ve learned to appreciate people around me and I learned to make
friends.
I want to share my experience with you and to change your life.
Doesn’t matter who you are, how you look, if you are young or
old…friendship come in all forms and shapes.
Here are few simple steps to follow if you want to have friends:
1. Be positive.
A very dear Irish friend was always telling me to have faith in
human race and don’t give up jet.
2. Stop to smell the roses.
Life is short, please be good with yourself and others. There is a
lot of happiness in simple things.
3. Be open mind.
There are more obstacles in our mind, then in reality.
4. Humour helps.
Don’t take everything too serious.
5. Be tolerant. We all make mistakes.
6. Show people that you care.
Listening what they want to say it’s an excellent beginning.
7. Have respect.
Don’t treat people any different of how would you like yourself to
be treated.
8. Use your instincts.
Stay away from troubles and people that you feel incompatible
with.
9. Smile.
A simple smile can open many doors for you.
10. Change yourself.
It’s so much easier changing yourself than trying to change the
others.
11. Let the people know that you
exist.
Introduce yourself; don’t be afraid to ask questions or to be
seen.
12. Build new bridges and keep
the old ones.
Reciprocity
is vital in to a success relationship. Look after your new and old friends.
Make a call, send a card, be a constant figure in their life.
You are
unique and so everybody else. Try to see or discover something good in any
person that you meet.
Follow those
simple steps and you will transform your life.
The solution
is you and you can do it.
Don’t forget, people can change
other people life.
